Eureka! I have found it! The perfect Match.com profile, take note.
The California State motto is also the exclamation heard around the proverbial ‘girls locker room’ at Match.com world. Women talk.
Profiles in Courage or Candor?
His profile started with a dash of self-deprecating humor, he segued into a cute story about a cold and dreary night-Halloween-with his cute nine-year-old daughter. He describes his creative, spontaneous costume that won the approval and smiles from all around (clearly established in four sentences: good dad, sense of humor, spontaneous, sweet.)
Then, a short, sweet paragraph waxing philosophical about what’s important in life. And, next the coup de grace: Jimmy K. reveals he thinks gray hair is sexy, he loves laugh lines, and a few extra pounds…
He calls them a’ huge turn on’.
For all intents and purposes, Jimmy K is a classic, all-American, boy.
He lives in the suburbs, attended good schools, has been divorced for 6 years; he is a 50-something; is medium height, medium build and has a good, steady job. Major points. However his “priorities” are like a siren’s call to all women-of an age- on Match.com
The Magic Words
When is the last time you heard a man say that gray hair, laugh lines, a couple extra pounds are sexy? Gentlemen start your profiles – you want to emulate – think out of the box – like the now famous Jimmy K.
While his mail-box is over flowing with winks, nods, notes and emails, Jimmy K is driving his daughter to college – a momentous occasion which requires his full attention.
He says he is delighted to have been besieged with fan mail – and he will respond to each email – one at a time.
He has no idea how fast word spreads when there is a great guy around.

